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Post by Blackie™ ` CONFU~ZLED on Dec 9, 2009 20:45:35 GMT -5
I'm so confused. And I really don't know what to do. So, heres the story, back story, front story, and maybe even a side story. Enjoy.
Me and my ex broke up after about a year a month and a day. It tore me up, and I was making plans to get into a 'car accident'. But, my friend(who just so happened to be my ex's bestie) convinced me out of it. So, I didn't. Instead, I started to hang out with him. We had both secretly liked each other, though besties aren't supposed to like the ex. Well, my ex got pissed that his bestie was friends with me, and made him choose. His bestie refused to choose, and so my ex abandoned him. Me and his bestie got closer, and eventually started dating. Aside from my ex talking lies about me, everything was fine. Well, my bf and I play a game. An MMORPG called Shaiya. The people on there can make crude comments, but its a human nature to joke and flirt. My bf gets mad when people make such comments to me. Ok, I understand. But we argue about it a lot. Now, to make things better, we are fighting at the moment because I said "Heya Smexy" to one of my bestie guy friends. I dont know what to do. I practically have to ask permission to do stuff. So, what to do?
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Post by *(SHADE)* on Dec 9, 2009 20:51:01 GMT -5
talk to him. if he wont listen, leave. cheating boyfriends and break ups and addictions are always rough, but suicide should never be what you consider. they obviously didn't want you, move on. i'd be pissed, but i wouldn't want to kill myself.
i'd tell him to back off a bit, in a polite way. and explain your feelings to him.
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Post by Blackie™ ` CONFU~ZLED on Dec 9, 2009 22:12:58 GMT -5
The thing with my ex is resolved, i guess. Now its just my bf. He saved me, now he's killing me. I've tried to tell him that he's hurting me, but he turns it around so that I am the one to blame. I love him a lot, but it hurts.
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Post by *(SHADE)* on Dec 10, 2009 8:38:38 GMT -5
love hurts. it took me forever to forgive tyler for the rape and everything, but you just have to talk to him and don't let him turn it on you. guys are snakes, you just gotta find the right poison to lure them in. if you make it very well known that you won't take the blame than perhaps he would listen.
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